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The Therapy Network includes a diverse group of psychologists, therapists and clinical social workers. Our aim is to help you find a therapist that is qualified and appropriate for your needs and resources. Therapy Network serves San Francisco, Oakland, Berkeley, Albany, Corte Madera, Kentfield, the City of Sonoma and Walnut Creek and the rest of the Bay Area.

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Adult Children of Alcoholics (ACA) Issues/Codependency

If you grew up in an environment where one or both parents had a drinking problem and where secrecy, denial and isolation were the norm, you may have difficulty trusting others, struggle with feelings of guilt or shame, and tend to be overly responsible. If there were rules against talking about feelings and emotions at home, you may have difficulty expressing yourself or feel numb a lot of the time. Some people who grow up in alcoholic families struggle with poor self-esteem and develop codependent relationships.

Codependency is a relationship dynamic that involves putting others' needs before your own, sometimes to your own detriment. Focusing on others, by being overly care-taking and/or approval seeking, becomes central to your life. You may have a low opinion of yourself and try to connect with others by becoming needed, yet still feel very alone. Codependency can also occur with other relationships, not just with an intimate partner.

Therapy can help you to understand how you learned to cope in your family and how those behaviors affect you now. With therapy, you can start to move the focus back to yourself, and discover what it is you really need and want. It can help you start to validate your own experience and self-worth, allowing you to create healthier relationships and a more fulfilling life.

Therapy for adult children of alcoholics can help separate what happened in the past from life right now and it can assist in learning how to trust yourself and others.

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